Candle wax - Am I just a wimp?

[Smoke's-Slut]

vistana as others have said hot wax isn't for everyone. I have found the taper candles to be to intense and hurt like hell and take a long time to drip onto your body for pleasure. I tried a dark cherry glass jar candle the last time I did wax play. The wax was warm and felt so good and made me so wet. It also covered my breasts fairly fast compared to the taper candle. I enjoyed it on my inner thighs as well as my pubic area. Maybe you could try some of the suggestions and find you enjoy it. Then again maybe it just isn't for you.

[poetic_justice]

I absolutely adore candle wax on my skin. It was used on me as punishment, because he knew I didn't have a very high pain tolerance, and I ended up begging for more. I love the intense heat, almost burning of it as it covers your skin, dripping softly with the curves of your body. *shivers*

Now I'm getting myself all worked up.
Maybe I should write a poem out of that? HMMM...

[Timberwolf]

I absolutely adore candle wax on my skin. It was used on me as punishment, because he knew I didn't have a very high pain tolerance, and I ended up begging for more. I love the intense heat, almost burning of it as it covers your skin, dripping softly with the curves of your body. *shivers*

Now I'm getting myself all worked up.
Maybe I should write a poem out of that? HMMM...

Well as one of your biggest fans, I'd quite like that. I've never played with wax myself... and you always do hae such a delicious way with words.

[vistana]

geez, I start a thread and then disappear for a couple weeks. Oops!

Thanks for all the advice, much appreciated. I know that even if I can't get this to work I'm not a wimp That was written a bit more tongue in cheek than it came out. Hell, I was jumping of 25 foot cliffs a coupel days ago and have bite mark bruises on my stomach. I am not a wimp!
Just frustrated because the guy I played with really liked playing with candles and I just freak out.
It's become less of an immediate issue now, he's started dating someone and I've lost him as a Dom (separate topic, but I'm pretty bummed out about that one)

I knew that more distance=cooler wax, but I think my idea of more distance was smalled than what's been said here. I tend to sacrifice distance to improve aim. need to work on that.
And I'll see about paraffin candles. Even though I'm lacking in anyone to play with I think I'm going to pursue some independant wax play. A project, shall we say. Maybe I'll end up with some photos for my trouble.