What to say that has not already been said.

*Thinks.....Thinkgs some more.....*

Nope I really can't think of anything else. If the man is being abusive and pulling the relationship past your limits and into a realm of your life that you do not want it to go then I would say that a BDSM relationship is not all that possible. Heck even a regular relationship is not all that possible if one side is abusive when they should not be.