Self torture, pain or pleausre?

[Caitlin]

...are there others, who would torture themselves soley to feel the pain regardless if it brought pleasure?
Domination King

I would like to try some pain. Preferably someone administering it. I got my husband to spank me (first time ever) last night while he rode me oggy: , but they were like heavy pats. He just carn't bring himself to hurt me. But on the other hand I don't think I'm courageous to do it to myself just to cause pain either.

Caitlin

[chromedome11]

I got my husband to spank me (first time ever) last night while he rode me oggy: , but they were like heavy pats. He just carn't bring himself to hurt me.

My bet is your husband needs to know you enjoy it. I'm sure he's worried he will hurt you, but he's also worried he'll do the wrong thing and ruin the scene.

Does he know how much you enjoy it? Do you beg him to hit you harder? Do you look at him with those pouty eyes and say "Please, sir, I want some more?".

Just my two cents, but if he's convinced you're really into it, he'll go deeper.

[Caitlin]

My bet is your husband needs to know you enjoy it. I'm sure he's worried he will hurt you, but he's also worried he'll do the wrong thing and ruin the scene.

He does, but I am approaching him softly, softly about it. I don't want him to start questioning what sort of woman he's been married to all there years.

Does he know how much you enjoy it? Do you beg him to hit you harder? Do you look at him with those pouty eyes and say "Please, sir, I want some more?".

Mmmm. Food for thought.

Just my two cents, but if he's convinced you're really into it, he'll go deeper.

I hope your right. I didn't get any last night. Maybe I frightened him when I showed him my goodies; butt plug, and lube. Thanks chromedome.

[midnightsky]

For me pain isnt all that pleasureable most of the time, though i have no problem casuing myself pain. On the other hand, my sub likes pain only if it leads to pleasure (and fast!).

(also, two good techinques that ive never really seen discussed- threading [a hair removale techinque] or a pair of tweezers. If you cant leave/dont want marks it can work in a pinch- no pun intended (and you have a lot of hair ), especially threading since it can be a bit unpredictable (ok well not if you aredoing it to yourself, but you get the idea).

[learningtopleez]

I've just recently started inflicting a little pain on myself, because I have become so curious about it after reading different posts and threads here and on other forums. I was really afraid I couldn't do it as I have such a low pain tolerance when it comes to illnesses, as mentioned by spankinsue. But to my delight and pleasure, even though it was somewhat painful at first, it did enhance the pleasure and the orgasm!!! Now mind you, it was no more than a few clothespins placed in various places and I even took a brush and spanked my own ass! The nipples have been super sensitive thanks to the clothespins, and for a couple of days after spanking my ass, I had a flash back everytime I went to sit down! So I guess to answer the question...I wanted to experience the pain to see what all the fuss was about and in turn found that it gives you such a pleasurable feeling, that who knows...I may turn into one of those painsluts!

~ltp~

[jip]

I would like to try some pain. Preferably someone administering it. I got my husband to spank me (first time ever) last night while he rode me oggy: , but they were like heavy pats. He just carn't bring himself to hurt me. But on the other hand I don't think I'm courageous to do it to myself just to cause pain either.

Caitlin

Well have a try to convince him is doing mually the same or similar to each other. He spanks you, do the same with him, or pinch each other niples trying to last longest etc.... It will avoid that he makes himself guilty to hurt you. Good luck