Protocol?

[J-Go]

Well I suppose it’s time for the “Dom” to chime in on this thread. Perhaps clarify some statements and positions. First off Whippett, thank you for your caring, common sense advice, advice I think followed when any woman meets a man for the first time, advice I would and will give…again thank you. Oz…hmmm not sure when submitting would be appropriate in this situation, I’m going to assume you were kidding. We’ll discuss that this summer when we actually meet…looking forward to that.

As for the “date” Amber asked me about it when she found out she was going to a conference in the city Sir Russell lives near. One of her first responses was “Ohh I wonder if I could meet Sir Russell?” My response was “I think he would be a very interesting person to have dinner with, you should try to meet him.” That folks has really been my involvement in the whole deal. “We” really did not contact him Amber did and the logistics of the meeting have been between DTA and SR. It is (and has been) very unlikely that I am going to accompany her, so she will be on her own…but Amber is a big girl with real life experiences that frankly I trust. I know she is savvy enough to not put herself in a situation that she does not want to be in…If she decides she wants to be in a situation, well me being the biggest baddest Dom in the world would not change that.

From what I have read of his comments and advice posted on the forum, I am sure Sir Russell is, and will be a complete gentleman. But at the end of the day Whippett is correct, Amber won’t know till she meets him. As for me if I was in Amber’s shoes I’d be calling Sir Russell myself…hope she has a great time.

J-Go

[gemmy]

.."Amber is a big girl with real life experiences that frankly I trust. I know she is savvy enough to not put herself in a situation that she does not want to be in…If she decides she wants to be in a situation, well me being the biggest baddest Dom in the world would not change that"....

J-Go, it's not hard to see why Amber is so happy in her choice of Master's - you continue to impress and speak with a wisdom I wish more Men period would pay attention to. The simple statement above is what Any relationship is about and being secure enough to trust Her first and not put petty jealousy on her about what 'may or may not' happen is a wonderful quality.

You both floor me constantly, everytime either of you posts. You guys have such a wit, intelligence, reason, common sense and above all an incredible humour that is so grounded in reality, I am enjoying it so much!! My kudos and respect to you both.

Ok am off to go growl in envy on my own *giggles*

[Ozme52]

Oz…hmmm not sure when submitting would be appropriate in this situation, I’m going to assume you were kidding. We’ll discuss that this summer when we actually meet…looking forward to that.

As am I J-Go.

Amber was getting so much advice to be "wary" that I felt compelled to actually answer her question as to how to act.

As far as the final thought was put, as I said... if appropriate.

The lady who runs our munch once said she never blushes.
Now she blushes uncontrollably when I look at her and raise an eyebrow.
Nothing that I did to her, nothing that I said to her outside of the concept of blushing for me in public... and now she can't help herself... Nothing more, but it gives me pleasure to have that control... and she found she likes the attention. You never know what falls into the realm of appropriate.

[Whippett]

As am I J-Go.

Amber was getting so much advice to be "wary" that I felt compelled to actually answer her question as to how to act.

As far as the final thought was put, as I said... if appropriate.

The lady who runs our munch once said she never blushes.
Now she blushes uncontrollably when I look at her and raise an eyebrow.
Nothing that I did to her, nothing that I said to her outside of the concept of blushing for me in public... and now she can't help herself... Nothing more, but it gives me pleasure to have that control... and she found she likes the attention. You never know what falls into the realm of appropriate.

Am I the only one who finds this incredibly disrespectful to both the young lady and her Dom?

Because I find such blatant disregard for the other Dom's prerogative distasteful in the extreme.