Does it always have to be

[sweetness and light]

i am not sure how others will respond, or how they deem to live thier lives, but in the relationship that i share with my Dom, D/s is always a part of our lives. though we need to live a "vanilla" lifestyle professionally, in some form or another, there is a reminder of the roles we have in the relationship. whether that is a quick discreet phone call between the two of us, and i playfullly respond to him "anything you wish Sir/Master", to the outside world it would only be a couple playing, but it is a reminder to the both of us what we share. Within our own private lives, away from the office/public scrutiny, it is much different. whether it is sexually, or interacting with one another, it does not matter, there is no question of the lifestyle we live. it is not always being restrained, or spanked. if there is a moment in my life that i need to be held, my hair stroked, or just a general feeling of "your an amazing woman", it does happen, but it also has a D/s flavor. i hope what i have said helps or makes sense. take care.

[Warbaby1943]

i am not sure how others will respond, or how they deem to live thier lives, but in the relationship that i share with my Dom, D/s is always a part of our lives. though we need to live a "vanilla" lifestyle professionally, in some form or another, there is a reminder of the roles we have in the relationship. whether that is a quick discreet phone call between the two of us, and i playfullly respond to him "anything you wish Sir/Master", to the outside world it would only be a couple playing, but it is a reminder to the both of us what we share. Within our own private lives, away from the office/public scrutiny, it is much different. whether it is sexually, or interacting with one another, it does not matter, there is no question of the lifestyle we live. it is not always being restrained, or spanked. if there is a moment in my life that i need to be held, my hair stroked, or just a general feeling of "your an amazing woman", it does happen, but it also has a D/s flavor. i hope what i have said helps or makes sense. take care.

sweetness and light,

Yes what you said makes perfect sense and I thank you for your input.