Well you know what makes her feel submissive, as me for the Dom, and why I feel like I do.

I enjoy the control, I enjoy the ability to put her mind somewhere that without drugs or alchohol she wouldn't be able to be. I enjoy being able to bring her out of that, and then drop her back into it simply with how I use a crop or flogger or even my palm for that matter. There is also how she speaks to me, how she reacts around me, how she speaks about me to others.

I once knew a person (called himself Dom, but I think he wasn't) that said something quite prophetic I thought. "If you ask me to tell you if your submissive or not, your submissive. If you ask me if your Dom or not, your submissive" What he was getting at is Dom's will tend to be Dom without wondering. There is a reverse side of this thinking. Many Dom's in the "Old Guard" or "Letherman" era had to be submissive before they were able to consider becoming Dom. This was two fold, and if you go to wikipedia and read about it, you can find out why. I won't try and educate you on that.

So, as to your question, are you Dom or are you sub, or are you Switch? The best way to find out is to try it out. Nothing ventured nothing gained.