Quote Originally Posted by Ruby

A note of caution: what turns a person on in fantasy, may not turn them on in real life. It's important to be aware of your partner at all times when you are in the top/dom role and make sure that the playtime stays just that.
Thanks everyone.

Ruby,

Truer words were never spoken. I did experience this just recently. Although I did enjoy myself, what I thought would turn me on and what I had fantasized about wasn't doing it. Something clear out of the blue that I hadn't even thought about before did it but we have already discussed that in another thread.