bdsm checklist

[fetishdj]

I don't think it is likely to be any more of a troll magnet than an entire forum labelled 'personals' which we already have. I feel that most trolls are likely to not bother with any long and complex forms and just dive in with the trolling.

I agree it needs to be one written by the site for the site. As for the terms being confusing - well, the addition of a 'do not know what this is' option is an idea for this. Not everyone in the lifestyle knows everything (though some claim to) and indicating something you are not knowledgeable of is one way to learn from others. It wa from asking about an option in a checklist that I learnt what Bastardino and Poppers were and decided I didn't fancy experimenting with either...

A checklist can be as long or as short as you want it to be.

[cbtme2]

I agree it should be easier to find people into what your into, I am a straight sub lookiing to be bound and forced bi orally through cbt where do I go for this conversation?

[cadence]

I agree it should be easier to find people into what your into, I am a straight sub lookiing to be bound and forced bi orally through cbt where do I go for this conversation?

There is a place in your profile to list your BDSM likes or activities. I don't know how many words you can post within that space, but most people have only two or three main interests. And regardless if you have a long list or a very short one, people will still have to view your profile anyway.
I personally would rather see a short summation of BDSM activities rather than a long one, I don't know who would take the time to read it all through.
I would think a few lines are better than a long list, when you are initially meeting someone.
Sure a checklist would be good to have, but as Annie pointed out, there is one available here in the forums.
You could fill it out and post a link to that in your profile.



If you are specifically looking for someone to meet, than the personals are the best way to find like minded people.



If you are looking to discuss certain ideas, questions, etc... than post in any appropriate thread.