words, actions or both?

[hissexypet]

This is what makes LDR's so hard.

I know in my case my Sir travels a lot for His job, works extremely long hours and sometimes is just exhausted when He gets back to His hotel room. Sometimes its hard for Him to even send me an email. And I think it only takes a minute just to tell me "hi'.

But He also is very good about telling me that He will be traveling and may not be in touch for a few days too. Sometimes with no Internet or cell service. I still worry though.

When I haven't heard from Him in a few days, my mind goes crazy and I worry. Only imagining things that would keep Him from getting in touch.

But every time my worries were unfounded and everything was ok.

Keep the faith and go with your gut its always right.

Best of luck to you.

[sinderella]

ohhh.....nono...this is not a "LDR"... Long Distance Relationship(?)....he lives very close to me, in fact, practically the same neighborhood....and we have met many times... i just meant we are not together as Dom/subbie...we are just exploring each other right now, although he does intend that our relationship will definitelty be that of a Dom/submissive eventually. and we haven't even fucked yet. sorry to be so blunt, but that is what i meant when i said we are not together physically... it took me a while because i was not sure what "LDR" meant. he is traveling in another state at the moment, although he will return very soon...

[hissexypet]

ohhh.....nono...this is not a "LDR"... Long Distance Relationship(?)....he lives very close to me, in fact, practically the same neighborhood....and we have met many times... i just meant we are not together as Dom/subbie...we are just exploring each other right now, although he does intend that our relationship will definitely be that of a Dom/submissive eventually. and we haven't even fucked yet. sorry to be so blunt, but that is what i meant when i said we are not together physically... it took me a while because i was not sure what "LDR" meant. he is traveling in another state at the moment, although he will return very soon...

Oh Im sorry, I misread and misunderstood some of your post. Yes LDR is a long distance relationship. Still its hard when you want them to communicate with you and they don't all kinds of things go thru your mind. Always thinking the worst, when it isn't.

Sometimes Im less than patient and want things now now now. I have to remember that Im not the one in control.

Best wishes on your journey!!!!