Well that's a story and a half.

I had my first online acct when I was about 10 (AOL) within a year or two, my father took the parent guidance regulations off, because they were ridiculous. So I knew my way around the internet at a very young age.

In my family, sex has never been a secret. My father isn't a very good one, and... well, i knew all about sex and porn and swinging by the time i was 12. Add that to the fact that I was reading college level books by 4th grade... and we all know sex is a major component of most adult literature books... lol. I discovered "cybering" by the time i was 14. And if anything will finish off an education without real life contact, that's it.

I don't know when exactly I discovered kinky sex, I think it was just part of my explorations, and not a big deal because thus far, i had had no reason to think so.

But when I was 16 my first bf was kinky as well. My siblings and I over powered him once and tied him down, for fun. But he took this as something of an invitation and got his revenge later... We never did anything serious, but he sent me a link to a website with stories. The first one I read was "monica's place." Fairly extreme for a newbie, but I grew to like it after a few chapters, and from then on couldn't get enough.

So I was hooked. I had already been on yahoo, so I just naturally turned to their chats to find kink, but most people there are posers. I remember one Domme in particular who didn't have a relationship per se with me, but we talked and I learned a lot. One of the few genuine dominants on yahoo.

I discovered the library when searching for more reading material. And the rest, as they say, is history.


As far as advice? hmmm.

As others have said, take everything you are told with a grain of salt. Expect faults that people show online (especially in intimate relat's) to be worse in person. Pictures are rarely accurate if the poster is looking to find a date. And most internet doms (other than on nice sites like this) are just power hungry sob's that have no interest in your welfare.

I'm not trying to sat that it's all bad, just don't let your expectations get too high, play safe, and try to find a local kink scene to help add to your "education." Because nothing can really replace real experience.