Welcome aboard, amanda. Actually House of Abductor was a huge community & half of the members were usually "safely" lurking in the shadows...

Interesting that you mention the fascination starting from a young age. I have a really close gal friend & she always wanted to be the ransomed girl or the kidnapped princess when we were kids. I was happy to obligue. She was a year my senior and later, in junior high she also introduced the sexual connection to the whole tie up thing. Since then I practiced light bondage with some of my girlfriends & explored the s&m- bdsm side on the net.