Who has the most power?

[tina2008]

I believe the power structure has the ability to be equal, however, as Jon's submissive, I gladly hand my power over to Him.

[cadence]

Typically I have the power, and try to hold on to it, until the power exchange ultimately happens and he beats my ass black and blue - then he has the power

[NiNLover]

I'd like to say both. . .

I mean, it's a power exchange, so both parties are giving power to each other. Neither really has the most because both can stop the other whenever they want. Although there are times when it can shift, like when a scene is being played out. Then I think the sub's got it more because they can stop the scene whenever they choose. It really depends on what's going on, imo.