wondering where I can find male "sex workers?"

[fetishdj]

There usually is not much of a market for male sex workers who deal with women, which is why you are having problems. Men (of either orientation) are more likely to pay for meaningless sex than the average woman. If there were a market for male prostitutes who deal with women, I'd have been far richer than I am now...

If you have enough to pay for my ticket to Ontario plus a fee, I'd come over and help

Male escorts aren't supposed to have sex with clients, though everyone knows that they do if asked. What you are doing is hiring a man to look good on your arm for an evening to an engagement. I think any sexual contact is negotiated off the record with the escort and is a seperate payment. I also suspect that some vary their prices depending on how nice/horrible or even beautiful/ugly the woman is.

As for age and attitude... well, an older woman can make up for a lot by being confident and seeming happy. If you are healthy and reasonably good looking, you can pull with ease regardless of age. When I was in my 20s I had a number of one night stands with women who were heading for or over thier 30s and I did not even know they were in their 30s.

Just remember, in terms of sexual power, women have all of it. Men want it, you have it. if you look like you don't want to give it away you'll soon be offered as many choices as you can cope with.

As for men who are rude to you, sod 'em (I would have said fuck 'em but that gives the wrong impression in context ). They aren't worth having, even for a one night stand. Let them die alone and unloved like the worthless pieces of human wreckage that they are.

[Matin]

Couple things. Dicks for hire can be had without issue, but please be safe. Canada has craigslist, yes, or something of that nature?

You might post in casual encounters for an actual non-pro, but if it's a pro that you want, try this. Usually in gigs you will find ads for agencies hiring escorts, be they male or female. Call the number, even if they say they're only hiring women. bet they know where to get a man. Another tack is to ask a hooker.

Please be cautious when meeting people from the interwebs. It's been said to death, but going out to dinner with a guy first, then having SOMEONE know where you're headed after, it's all critical. When I would drop my friend off at 'appointments' I would snap a photo of the john(or jane)'s license plate. Precautions.

Final thought; Prince charming can't find you if you've cast him out with the thugs and idiots already.

Blessed be.
-matin

[artifex]

If you weren't so far away I'd offer to help for free...! I would guess that the quest for "just sex" would be easier for a woman than a man, but based on this thread maybe it isn't.

The bar idea seems like the best bet to me...and don't be afraid to hit on a guy or two. I'm very shy in social situations and am relieved when someone else starts the conversation!