Red flags for those new to the lifestyle

[angelic.zest]

I would also like to add that using ones common sense can help a great deal! I know I have gotten into situations when i was brand new into the lifestyle and I would like to say I did some stupid stuff so I know how it is lol. I know not everyone has common sense but there has to be a gut feeling some where that tells that person "this just doesn't seem right". Plus asking around helps when making decisions, also trying to find a mentor can help also.

[~little~miss~spitfire~]

I think everyone should have a copy of these pasted to their walls! So many of these flags are waving regarding someone in particular I met in the past week...so many there's enough for a jubilee celebration! Really it was the trying to stop me coming back into the Library because according to him neither of us had any need to come back here anymore since we found eachother that the biggest alarm went off in my head, I went straight back in and discovered precisely what had been going on, and that all the other red flags were waving merrily too! Trust your instinct people....it is rarely wrong.