The Next Step in D/s

[H Dean]

I always wonder at the doormat conversation. A girl with high self-esteem and self-confidence can never be a doormat, regardless of whether she obeys totally. The fact of the matter is that she has made a major choice: to trust in one and give him her obedience. If he is worthy, he will make proper decisions with her in mind and free her of the worry. Essentially, her last decision needs to be her most thoughtful. After that, there is really no reason for her not to be totally obedient.

[Ozme52]

I always wonder at the doormat conversation. A girl with high self-esteem and self-confidence can never be a doormat, regardless of whether she obeys totally. The fact of the matter is that she has made a major choice: to trust in one and give him her obedience. If he is worthy, he will make proper decisions with her in mind and free her of the worry. Essentially, her last decision needs to be her most thoughtful. After that, there is really no reason for her not to be totally obedient.

Well put.

Reading your signature line... I realized... Oh! Outstanding!

Congratulations Dean.

[H Dean]

Well put.

Reading your signature line... I realized... Oh! Outstanding!

Congratulations Dean.

Thank you, Oz.

[Tojo]

I always wonder at the doormat conversation. A girl with high self-esteem and self-confidence can never be a doormat, regardless of whether she obeys totally. The fact of the matter is that she has made a major choice: to trust in one and give him her obedience. If he is worthy, he will make proper decisions with her in mind and free her of the worry. Essentially, her last decision needs to be her most thoughtful. After that, there is really no reason for her not to be totally obedient.

OK, I hereby withdraw the 'doormat' analogy! Never liked that sucker anyway.

There is a reason for her not to be totally obedient though- it would be soooo boring......

[H Dean]

OK, I hereby withdraw the 'doormat' analogy! Never liked that sucker anyway.

There is a reason for her not to be totally obedient though- it would be soooo boring......

Total obedience doesn't do anything to squelch her personality and, her being rotten. Hell, the girl can do exactly what I say and behave exactly how I want while still pointing out something stupid I may have done.

I should add - she is rotten and she does like poking a stick at me. 'Course, she likes when I poke her with my stick, too. (fade to black)

[thrall]

Total obedience doesn't do anything to squelch her personality and, her being rotten. Hell, the girl can do exactly what I say and behave exactly how I want while still pointing out something stupid I may have done.

I should add - she is rotten and she does like poking a stick at me. 'Course, she likes when I poke her with my stick, too. (fade to black)

so does this mean we are now working on the stick envy principal ?????........


or the.....walk softly and carry a big stick???