Why is it cool to be a bi girl

[badlyguidedlittlemis]

True, I've encountered the same along the way for sure and just take it for what it is; attention seeking and just choose to not participate in that kind of competition.

My dominant said the same thing, he told me to just let them out compete each other and let them be, and that I am not to engage in such things as it will do neither of us any good.

I think you and him have hit the nail on the head, rise above it - as it's annoying me
Thanks

P.S - To the dominants who posted, you've made me smile a little, nice to see you poking your heads in the subbie side of the cake overseeing the frolics.

[steelish]

My dominant said the same thing, he told me to just let them out compete each other and let them be, and that I am not to engage in such things as it will do neither of us any good.

I think you and him have hit the nail on the head, rise above it - as it's annoying me
Thanks

P.S - To the dominants who posted, you've made me smile a little, nice to see you poking your heads in the subbie side of the cake overseeing the frolics.

Ok, so why should it annoy anyone? What difference does it make who or what someone else is if they are not your partner? To suggest that it matters attaches a stigma to a sexuality.

I myself am bi. I consider myself that, yes. I have been with several other women and thoroughly enjoyed the experience. I think women are beautiful and desirable.

I am married to a wonderful man and am currently with a Dom. Had I met a domme that I "clicked" with, I might have ended up with her, but I met Ronn first.

[badlyguidedlittlemis]

Ok, so why should it annoy anyone? What difference does it make who or what someone else is if they are not your partner? To suggest that it matters attaches a stigma to a sexuality.

It matters because the girls who caused me to post in the first place are friends of mine, as are their dominants, people I spend time with in the scene, at clubs and in vanilla situations.

It annoys me because many conversations and activities are driven towards who had done what, with whom and how many times and it tests my patience once in a while.
since I'm not overly competitive, or brag about what I do and with whom I tend to get bored.

[moonlitsub]

I think that most girls are bi for two reasons one women are more comfortable with there sexuality then men (as a majority on both sides) and two some women just think thats what men want so they will be that to be more appealing I really don't get it. I have met quite a few guys though that if you get them drunk enough so that there inhabition go they actually will suck a little bit or what not.

[Ozme52]

I think that most girls are bi for two reasons, one, women are more comfortable with there sexuality then men (as a majority on both sides)

I think I disagree. My experience is it's the other way around... but that may be because you see a different side of the street than I do... I guess it's all in the perspective.

and two, some women just think thats what men want so they will be that to be more appealing I really don't get it.

I have met quite a few guys though that if you get them drunk enough so that there inhabition go they actually will suck a little bit or what not.

That's the ultimate definition, imo, of bi-curious. Not willing to admit it but definitely curious enough to do it if they can claim they were (or actually are) drunk enough to not remember.

[Ozme52]

It matters because the girls who caused me to post in the first place are friends of mine, as are their dominants, people I spend time with in the scene, at clubs and in vanilla situations.

It annoys me because many conversations and activities are driven towards who had done what, with whom and how many times and it tests my patience once in a while.
since I'm not overly competitive, or brag about what I do and with whom I tend to get bored.

Just human nature and your dom was right, just don't let it bother you.

It could be worse... there will come a time that all your acquaintances will start to brag on how much medication they take, how many hospital visits they've had, and all the operations they've endured.

People like to play one-up and if the lifestyle is the most important thing in their life... well, like I said... it could be worse. LOL