D/s contracts

[Archeon]

Terminating contract: This contract may be terminated at any time by either partner for any reason but should not be done lightly.

It really is that cut and dry for us. And while it may seem obvious, its always nice to have a written escape plan. This will remain in our contract as far as im concerned. The thing to realise is that breaking contract isnt something you would expect to do, just because you didnt like something happening (thats what safe words are for), but really as a "this is seriously over" type of thing, rather than any kind of fake power struggle.

Arch

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It really is that cut and dry for us. And while it may seem obvious, its always nice to have a written escape plan. This will remain in our contract as far as im concerned. The thing to realise is that breaking contract isnt something you would expect to do, just because you didnt like something happening (thats what safe words are for), but really as a "this is seriously over" type of thing, rather than any kind of fake power struggle.

Arch

That is a very reasonable way to view things. I fully understand now where you are coming from with that.
But I'm still confused, are you breaking the contract, or ending the relationship?

[Archeon]

That is a very reasonable way to view things. I fully understand now where you are coming from with that.
But I'm still confused, are you breaking the contract, or ending the relationship?

Breaking of contract would result in either:

a) The end of the bdsm relationship
b) End of the relationship if the only aspect to said relationship was the BDSM aspect.